From the tears of trying to conceive our little miracle to the happiness of holding him in our arms. This is our journey. Then, we do it all over again.
Sunday, December 27, 2015
Clomid...check!
So, I ended up starting my period on day 4. I had a Dr's appt on Christmas eve eve :) and had an ultrasound. Everything was fine and he wrote me out a prescription for clomid. I was prescribed to take it days 3-7 and it was for 50 mg. Today was day 7 and my last pill. I go back on Thursday to see if the clomid worked and then depending what he says, the fun begins. :) We will see how this week goes. I'll update more after my appointment.
Sunday, December 20, 2015
Third times a charm?
Anyone still out there? I'm writing this post from my phone, so I apologize in advance.
We decided to go for baby #3 so we will see how this goes. I called my dr a few weeks ago because I figured there would be a few months wait, like the other 2 had been. Much to my surprise there was an appointment available the next day. So, I took it! I'm still all out of pocket so it ended up being $178. He sent me for blood work and it came back low enough to start provera.
I finished a 10 day prescription and now it can take up to 14 days to start my cycle. Today was day 3, so I'm still twiddling my thumbs. Once I get my period I'm supposed to call and my dr will make sure I can start clomid. I'm assuming if everything is fine I will start clomid that day.
But first, I need to start my period!! One thing at a time has been my motto.
We decided to go for baby #3 so we will see how this goes. I called my dr a few weeks ago because I figured there would be a few months wait, like the other 2 had been. Much to my surprise there was an appointment available the next day. So, I took it! I'm still all out of pocket so it ended up being $178. He sent me for blood work and it came back low enough to start provera.
I finished a 10 day prescription and now it can take up to 14 days to start my cycle. Today was day 3, so I'm still twiddling my thumbs. Once I get my period I'm supposed to call and my dr will make sure I can start clomid. I'm assuming if everything is fine I will start clomid that day.
But first, I need to start my period!! One thing at a time has been my motto.
Tuesday, June 10, 2014
Real funny, life. Real funny.
Have you ever just wanted to sleep for a full week straight? Not come out from under the covers? Not get out of bed? Just lay there and let life pass you by? That's how I've been feeling lately. I've been dodging bullets left and right these past few weeks and I'm ready for life to go back to normal. Luckily, things with the boys and E are great. I just wish everything else would go back to "easy" and fast.
Thursday, April 24, 2014
What's in a normal day?
There has been plenty of talk about how working Mom's balance their day to include their kids as well. Before I was a Mom I thought I was busy. Being a Mom of 1 I thought I was busy. Now that I'm a Mom of 2, goodness! I'm not quite sure how everything gets done, but it does. Sure my house could use a deep clean. Or I can catch up on my laundry throughout out the week. I've learned that I have to let go and things will eventually get done. And if they don't, oh freaking well!
A typical day for me is as follows:
6:45 my alarm goes off. I wake up and get dressed for work. I wake Lucas up and put his socks and shoes on. I go to Nathan's crib, change him and put in his car seat. Grab all of our bags and lunches and then leave.
7:30-Arrive at my Sister's and drop the boys off inside. Talk with her a bit.
7:45-Get to work. I work until 4.
4:00 Leave work to pick up the boys.
Some days we head home, some days we head to the park, some days we run errands. It all just depends on the day.
Once we get home I let Lucas go run outside in the backward or play with his toys in his room. I lay Nathan down for tummy time or to play on his activity mat. I immediately unpack the diaper bag and repack for the next day. I also wash bottles at this time and refill the formula containers. I pack lunches for the next day and leave those in the fridge. By this time its usually time to start cooking dinner. Sometimes I do all these things at once-cook dinner, pack bags and lunches. I sometimes throw a load of laundry in at this time too. Everything is done in the kitchen so I can keep an eye on both boys and still do what I need to do. If Edgar is home at this time its helpful. If not, totally doable by myself.
Once dinner is ready we all sit at the table. Nathan is able to eat food and sit in his bumbo now so he is usually at the table with us as well. We need to pull the high chair back inside from the garage so he can use that. We eat dinner. The kitchen gets cleaned while the other one of us gives the boys a bath. They both take baths at the same time. Nathan is still in his bathtub, in the big bathtub, while Lucas uses the other half and plays around. Lucas likes to be by the faucet because he likes to stick his head underneath. He has also started to love taking showers, so we will turn the shower on for him and just make sure the shower head is pointed straight down.
After bath time they both get their PJ's on. Depending on the time, they either play or get ready for bed. Their bedtime is between 8:30/9:00. Most days they both fall asleep right away. Some days Lucas wants to stay awake or wants the other one of us not putting him to sleep. The house gets quiet eventually.
After the boys are down its usually our "us" time. This usually includes watching a show that is on tv or going to sleep ourselves. Lately, we've all been asleep by 9:30.
Nathan is sleeping through the night right now so our day doesn't start again until my alarm goes off at 6:45 the next morning.
We have a pretty good thing going. It seems to be working, so it's what we do.
A typical day for me is as follows:
6:45 my alarm goes off. I wake up and get dressed for work. I wake Lucas up and put his socks and shoes on. I go to Nathan's crib, change him and put in his car seat. Grab all of our bags and lunches and then leave.
7:30-Arrive at my Sister's and drop the boys off inside. Talk with her a bit.
7:45-Get to work. I work until 4.
4:00 Leave work to pick up the boys.
Some days we head home, some days we head to the park, some days we run errands. It all just depends on the day.
Once we get home I let Lucas go run outside in the backward or play with his toys in his room. I lay Nathan down for tummy time or to play on his activity mat. I immediately unpack the diaper bag and repack for the next day. I also wash bottles at this time and refill the formula containers. I pack lunches for the next day and leave those in the fridge. By this time its usually time to start cooking dinner. Sometimes I do all these things at once-cook dinner, pack bags and lunches. I sometimes throw a load of laundry in at this time too. Everything is done in the kitchen so I can keep an eye on both boys and still do what I need to do. If Edgar is home at this time its helpful. If not, totally doable by myself.
Once dinner is ready we all sit at the table. Nathan is able to eat food and sit in his bumbo now so he is usually at the table with us as well. We need to pull the high chair back inside from the garage so he can use that. We eat dinner. The kitchen gets cleaned while the other one of us gives the boys a bath. They both take baths at the same time. Nathan is still in his bathtub, in the big bathtub, while Lucas uses the other half and plays around. Lucas likes to be by the faucet because he likes to stick his head underneath. He has also started to love taking showers, so we will turn the shower on for him and just make sure the shower head is pointed straight down.
After bath time they both get their PJ's on. Depending on the time, they either play or get ready for bed. Their bedtime is between 8:30/9:00. Most days they both fall asleep right away. Some days Lucas wants to stay awake or wants the other one of us not putting him to sleep. The house gets quiet eventually.
After the boys are down its usually our "us" time. This usually includes watching a show that is on tv or going to sleep ourselves. Lately, we've all been asleep by 9:30.
Nathan is sleeping through the night right now so our day doesn't start again until my alarm goes off at 6:45 the next morning.
We have a pretty good thing going. It seems to be working, so it's what we do.
Thursday, March 20, 2014
1st night in his crib
Nathan had his first full night's sleep in his crib last night. He did so good. He slept the whole night without one small peep. :) Me on the other hand, not so much. I kept waking up and listening to the monitor for the sound of his breathing. I figured it would be easier with him being the 2nd child, it wasn't. If anything it was MUCH harder because he doesn't share a wall with us like Lucas did in the duplex. Now, if only we can work on not having him swaddled. :)
Monday, March 17, 2014
Life is much busier with 2 kids...
I've been meaning to post for the past year, seriously. Life just had other plans.
Nathan was born at 38 weeks 2 days. December 9, 2013. Yup, EXACTLY 2 years after Lucas. Happy Birthday, Lucas-You have a baby brother! We had just had his Jake and the Neverland Pirates birthday party that day, December 8th. My family stayed over to help me clean up my house. It looked so sparkly. I sat on the couch after Lucas had a rough night getting to sleep. I posted on Facebook, as I often do, and said "Okay Nathan, we are ready when you are!" No less than 5 minutes I felt a mild gush. I looked over at Edgar who was intently watching tv. I told him I had either peed my pants or my water broke. He didn't seem too concerned and told me to shut up. lol After going to the restroom and calling my Sister, I convinced myself to call the after hours nurse line. It was almost 10 pm at this time. The nurse called me back and had me come in to just get checked out. Cue panic mode. I knew this was it. I had taken off work a bit early in hopes to spend time with Lucas and enjoy our time together, just the 2 of us. Nathan had his own way of how things should work.
The baby's bag had been packed for a bit but I didn't have anything packed for Lucas (he was going to be staying with my Sister). I was on the phone with the nurse running from room to room gathering clothes for everyone. Edgar was still sitting on the couch, not really realizing what was going on. Since I was having a repeat c section I wasn't sure if I was going to go into labor immediately or not, so I was trying to get to the hospital as soon as possible. We got Lucas packed up and dropped him off at my Sister's house. The delivery of the 2nd baby was MUCH different than our first. No one dropped what they were doing to come to the hospital. It just wasn't as "exciting" I guess. We called E's parents and they said to let us know what was going on. My Sister and BIL said to call them once we found out anything. We got to the hospital about 10:40 pm. As we were driving I continued to feel gushes as the car hit bumps so I knew this was it. I started getting exciting and nervous at the same time.
We arrived at the hospital and headed upstairs to check in. I didn't feel much movement so I asked if that was normal. They assured me it was. They got all my information down while they were getting an exam room ready and laughed when I said my 1st son's birthday was in just a few hours and by the looks of things-they were going to be sharing a birthday. Everyone was in shock that this could happen! I eventually got checked and they said that yes my water had broken and we were going to deliver this baby. Luckily my doctor just happened to be on call so she was able to do the surgery and deliver him.
Nathan Alessandro Perez was born on December 9, 2013 at 2:06 am. He weighed 7lbs 2 oz and was 20.5" long. I was so scared and worried that I wasn't going to be able to love another child as much as I did Lucas. Those feelings are long gone and I can't remember our family without him. He's such a sweetheart!
Nathan was born at 38 weeks 2 days. December 9, 2013. Yup, EXACTLY 2 years after Lucas. Happy Birthday, Lucas-You have a baby brother! We had just had his Jake and the Neverland Pirates birthday party that day, December 8th. My family stayed over to help me clean up my house. It looked so sparkly. I sat on the couch after Lucas had a rough night getting to sleep. I posted on Facebook, as I often do, and said "Okay Nathan, we are ready when you are!" No less than 5 minutes I felt a mild gush. I looked over at Edgar who was intently watching tv. I told him I had either peed my pants or my water broke. He didn't seem too concerned and told me to shut up. lol After going to the restroom and calling my Sister, I convinced myself to call the after hours nurse line. It was almost 10 pm at this time. The nurse called me back and had me come in to just get checked out. Cue panic mode. I knew this was it. I had taken off work a bit early in hopes to spend time with Lucas and enjoy our time together, just the 2 of us. Nathan had his own way of how things should work.
The baby's bag had been packed for a bit but I didn't have anything packed for Lucas (he was going to be staying with my Sister). I was on the phone with the nurse running from room to room gathering clothes for everyone. Edgar was still sitting on the couch, not really realizing what was going on. Since I was having a repeat c section I wasn't sure if I was going to go into labor immediately or not, so I was trying to get to the hospital as soon as possible. We got Lucas packed up and dropped him off at my Sister's house. The delivery of the 2nd baby was MUCH different than our first. No one dropped what they were doing to come to the hospital. It just wasn't as "exciting" I guess. We called E's parents and they said to let us know what was going on. My Sister and BIL said to call them once we found out anything. We got to the hospital about 10:40 pm. As we were driving I continued to feel gushes as the car hit bumps so I knew this was it. I started getting exciting and nervous at the same time.
We arrived at the hospital and headed upstairs to check in. I didn't feel much movement so I asked if that was normal. They assured me it was. They got all my information down while they were getting an exam room ready and laughed when I said my 1st son's birthday was in just a few hours and by the looks of things-they were going to be sharing a birthday. Everyone was in shock that this could happen! I eventually got checked and they said that yes my water had broken and we were going to deliver this baby. Luckily my doctor just happened to be on call so she was able to do the surgery and deliver him.
Nathan Alessandro Perez was born on December 9, 2013 at 2:06 am. He weighed 7lbs 2 oz and was 20.5" long. I was so scared and worried that I wasn't going to be able to love another child as much as I did Lucas. Those feelings are long gone and I can't remember our family without him. He's such a sweetheart!
Thursday, April 25, 2013
First ultrasound
My HCG levels rose to to 3541, which was great! They wanted to do an early ultrasound to make sure everything implanted in the correct spot. My appointment was today at 10:30.
I didn't get seen until almost 11:30, which is the longest I've ever waited at his office. It was nerve wracking. The baby is in the correct spot of my uterus. It's still too early to see a heart beat so he had me schedule another ultrasound for 2 weeks. I chose an afternoon time so hopefully my husband will be able to make it. He said everything looked great and congratulated me on another successful pregnancy! It made my heart really happy.
I go back on Monday for another round of HCG's and I'm going to keep hoping they continue to rise. I can't wait to scream it out to the world.
I didn't get seen until almost 11:30, which is the longest I've ever waited at his office. It was nerve wracking. The baby is in the correct spot of my uterus. It's still too early to see a heart beat so he had me schedule another ultrasound for 2 weeks. I chose an afternoon time so hopefully my husband will be able to make it. He said everything looked great and congratulated me on another successful pregnancy! It made my heart really happy.
I go back on Monday for another round of HCG's and I'm going to keep hoping they continue to rise. I can't wait to scream it out to the world.
Monday, April 22, 2013
Round 2
I am so not a good blogger! I was doing so well with Lucas and then life just took over. So here I am. Again! I will back track to get caught up.
I was having regular periods for the first time in my life after having Lucas. We were shocked. We started officially "trying" in July. I figured it took so much time with Lucas that I didn't want to waste that precious time, and if it took just as long, at least we had already started the process. January came around and we still weren't pregnant. I called Dr. Vaughn up and decided to schedule a consultation with him. Appointment was set for February 21st.
At appointment time my cycle was close to 100 days, if not that already. He had me go in for bloodwork at a lab. They called and said all my levels were low enough and I could start prometrium to jumpstart my period. I started that and my period came on March 10th. On March 12th I went back to have an ultrasound done and everything checked out great. I started clomid that same day. I went back to Dr. Vaughn on March 21st, on day 12 of my cycle, and the ultrasound showed the clomid 1. Already made me ovulate 2. Will make me ovulate later than normal 3. Won't make me ovulate at all. My eggs were not big enough. He told me to start taking opk's and to come back on Monday March 25th, if I didn't ovulate over the weekend. I would be lying to you if I told you I wasn't devastated. I was prepared for it to go the exact same way as Lucas did. Easy peasy. Not quite.
I didn't end up going back on Monday. I cancelled that appointment because I knew I didn't ovulate over the weekend but I was just going to let things run its course. Edgar got so sick. Like, he probably felt like he was dying sick. I felt bad for him and he stayed home from work on Friday the 29th because he just couldn't get out of bed. I had one opk left. I just took it on a whim that evening and the line was pretty dark. I kicked myself for not getting the smiley face ones this time. They were out at the store I went too and didn't feel like going to a different ones. The opk strips with the lines were/are so hard to read. I figured if it was dark enough, I would take my chance. I knew Edgar was sick but he had to take it for the team. He had no problems obliging. :)
We celebrated my birthday, Easter, my Dad's birthday (who's been deceased for 10 years now), my niece and nephews birthday. My little nephew had his birthday party at a jumping place on April 6th. Time just flew and not once did I ever think it was possible to be pregnant. Definitely a change from with Lucas. That 2 week wait was horrible!
Monday, April 8th we had a house full of visitors. I was going to give Lucas a bath a little earlier so we could go hang out with the family and decided to take my last pregnancy test. Low and behold there was a 2nd line. THERE WAS A SECOND LINE!!! I sat on the toilet seat. This was not something I was expecting at all. I started to shake and called for my Sister in law to come to the restroom. She came and I asked if she saw a 2nd line. She said yes. She knew that I had given up hope because of the dr's appointment that showed the clomid didn't work properly. I called Edgar. He came to the restroom and just stared at Lucas. All the while I was standing against the counter, blocking the test. I just stared at him. He kept looking at Lucas with this "what" look on his face. I moved over, he saw the test, his mouth dropped and he just kept asking "how, what, when" lol
So, I have just been doing bloodwork at my drs office. No date for my first appointment yet. Hopefully today I will get that information. I am waiting for a phone call regarding my hcg levels that were taken this morning.
So guys, looks like (if everything goes right), we are having another December baby! I am beyond excited!!
I was having regular periods for the first time in my life after having Lucas. We were shocked. We started officially "trying" in July. I figured it took so much time with Lucas that I didn't want to waste that precious time, and if it took just as long, at least we had already started the process. January came around and we still weren't pregnant. I called Dr. Vaughn up and decided to schedule a consultation with him. Appointment was set for February 21st.
At appointment time my cycle was close to 100 days, if not that already. He had me go in for bloodwork at a lab. They called and said all my levels were low enough and I could start prometrium to jumpstart my period. I started that and my period came on March 10th. On March 12th I went back to have an ultrasound done and everything checked out great. I started clomid that same day. I went back to Dr. Vaughn on March 21st, on day 12 of my cycle, and the ultrasound showed the clomid 1. Already made me ovulate 2. Will make me ovulate later than normal 3. Won't make me ovulate at all. My eggs were not big enough. He told me to start taking opk's and to come back on Monday March 25th, if I didn't ovulate over the weekend. I would be lying to you if I told you I wasn't devastated. I was prepared for it to go the exact same way as Lucas did. Easy peasy. Not quite.
I didn't end up going back on Monday. I cancelled that appointment because I knew I didn't ovulate over the weekend but I was just going to let things run its course. Edgar got so sick. Like, he probably felt like he was dying sick. I felt bad for him and he stayed home from work on Friday the 29th because he just couldn't get out of bed. I had one opk left. I just took it on a whim that evening and the line was pretty dark. I kicked myself for not getting the smiley face ones this time. They were out at the store I went too and didn't feel like going to a different ones. The opk strips with the lines were/are so hard to read. I figured if it was dark enough, I would take my chance. I knew Edgar was sick but he had to take it for the team. He had no problems obliging. :)
We celebrated my birthday, Easter, my Dad's birthday (who's been deceased for 10 years now), my niece and nephews birthday. My little nephew had his birthday party at a jumping place on April 6th. Time just flew and not once did I ever think it was possible to be pregnant. Definitely a change from with Lucas. That 2 week wait was horrible!
Monday, April 8th we had a house full of visitors. I was going to give Lucas a bath a little earlier so we could go hang out with the family and decided to take my last pregnancy test. Low and behold there was a 2nd line. THERE WAS A SECOND LINE!!! I sat on the toilet seat. This was not something I was expecting at all. I started to shake and called for my Sister in law to come to the restroom. She came and I asked if she saw a 2nd line. She said yes. She knew that I had given up hope because of the dr's appointment that showed the clomid didn't work properly. I called Edgar. He came to the restroom and just stared at Lucas. All the while I was standing against the counter, blocking the test. I just stared at him. He kept looking at Lucas with this "what" look on his face. I moved over, he saw the test, his mouth dropped and he just kept asking "how, what, when" lol
So, I have just been doing bloodwork at my drs office. No date for my first appointment yet. Hopefully today I will get that information. I am waiting for a phone call regarding my hcg levels that were taken this morning.
So guys, looks like (if everything goes right), we are having another December baby! I am beyond excited!!
Sunday, March 11, 2012
3 Months!
Lucas is 3 months. I can't believe how fast this time is flying. He's so precious and makes my heart melt everyday. In his 3rd month of life he has:
been sleeping the total night. This makes Mommy and Daddy proud! He goes down between 9-10 and sleeps until 6 on daycare days or 8/9 on weekends.
He started daycare while Mommy goes to work. He just goes to my Sister's house but she babysits other kids so he's getting alot of interaction with other little ones.
Slept away from Mommy and Daddy for the first time. Not by choice. I was hospitalized when I got my gall bladder removed and he stayed 2 nights with my Sister and 1 night with my in-laws. Hardest thing for Mommy to deal with!
Moved up to size 2 diapers.
He wears 3-6 mon clothes but sometimes he's in 9 mon.
Eats 5 oz about 6 times a day.
Still naps wonderfully.
Started to let out a very strong laugh. Still not full on but he's getting there.
Starting spinning the hanging ball on his playmat.
Halfway rolled from his back to his stomach.
Stroller rides no longer exists with the baby carrier. He loves sitting up and looking around.
He tries to sit up by himself. He doesn't like to lay down if there is something going on around him.
He is starting to love tummy time. I just wish he would roll over.
He also got pictures taken. He flirted with the photographer! He is definately Edgar's son. :)
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Hi-Ho It's back to work I go...
I've packed Lucas' bag. I've layed out his clothes for the morning. He's nice and snug in his bed. Tomorrow, this Mama goes back to work. Thankfully it's only for a half day. I wanted to go back a day earlier than scheduled so I can get my desk ready and get back into the groove of things. My sister is going out of town tomorrow at noon so I have to make sure I'm home by then. It's going to be nice to be back at work (or if I keep telling myself that I will eventually believe it!) and seeing all my coworkers. Monday is my real first day back-so that will be the real test. The only thing I didn't do is lay out my clothes, but I know exactly what I'm wearing so it shouldn't take long.
We are going to have a jam packed weekend. Tomorrow after I get out of work, Lucas and I are going to hit up 2 consignment sales. I couldn't be more excited to shop for him. My big guy is already in 6 month clothes. He completely skipped the 3-6 stage. He needs shorts because right now most of his clothes are some type of pant bottoms. Tomorrow evening we're supposed to go to my school's dance but I'm not sure if we are really going to go. Saturday Lucas is staying with Daddy while I go to one of my thirty-one gifts parties. My friend Stephanie is hosting a party for me and I'm excited. I had my first party this past Sunday and it was very successful. Hopefully I get someone to host a party, it would be awesome if they did! Saturday afternoon, after 3, is open for right now. Sunday we are meeting my cousin for breakfast and then going to the kite festival. It's also Erick's gf Cierra's 18th birthday and I think we are doing something for that too. I'm just glad I am caught up on laundry and my house is pretty much clean so I won't have to do anything this weekend.
Thursday, February 16, 2012
Down and out
This past weekend went down as one of my worst ever. If you remember, I had been having MAJOR heartburn while pregnant. Fast forward to my 6 week pp check up and I let my dr know I was still having the pain. She figured it wasn't really heartburn, because that should have already gone away after the baby was born. I suggested maybe it was my gallbladder. She asked why I thought that and I told her because all those nights I was up for hours with that horrendous pain, I was googling and each time it led me to my gallbladder. She set me up for an ultrasound and sent me on my way.
The ultrasound showed I had gallstones. BOO! My dr called with the results and sent me to see a surgeon. The surgeon went over everything with me and told me I would be going in on Friday at 7:45 for a 9:45 procedure and would be going home soon after I woke up. When I woke up in recovery, I heard them talking on the phone to my Sister telling them I was going up to room 436. Uhh, I don't think so! They said the dr would be in to speak to me and that I should still be going home sometime that day.
The dr came to speak to me and let me know that he had found a blockage and that I would need a scan done. The scan would be done Saturday and afterwards he was pretty sure I would get to go home. This meant I was spending the night in the hospital and without my Lucas! Cue the waterworks.
Saturday came and I had the scan done. I of course asked the tech guy what he saw. He told me there was def something going on and that the fluid was going through my liver and thats why I was still having the pain. Augh, this meant I was spending ANOTHER night without my baby. Cue waterworks again!
Sunday came and they said I was going to have stent placed in my liver to open up the bile duct and let the bile travel through the correct way. This procedure should take 30 minutes and I should go home after. YES! 1 o'clock came and the dr came in and said one of the nurses had gotten sick and had to go home. My procedure would have to be postponed until Monday because they needed 2 nurses to do the procedure. WTF, seriously!?! Cue MAJOR waterworks. I was done. I was tired of not being home and especially of not being with my baby. Would he remember me? Was he sad? I was just finished. Luckily the sweetest nurse ever came in on her day off and I was able to have the procedure done at 3:45 on Sunday. She was my personal angel. I think I thanked her about 30,000 times. I even remember waking up in recovery thanking her. lol I ended up having to spend the night on Sunday because they had to do blood work on Monday morning but by this time I was thankful to be feeling better and was accepting of the full nights rest that I was sure to receive. Sure enough Sunday night was the best night of sleep I have had in a while and on Monday I was discharged.
I was so happy to see Lucas! He was well taken care of by family (which I had no doubt he would be). I'm not even sure he realized we were gone for so long. I'm home now and feeling so much better each day. I can finally say I am thankful for having the procedure done.
The ultrasound showed I had gallstones. BOO! My dr called with the results and sent me to see a surgeon. The surgeon went over everything with me and told me I would be going in on Friday at 7:45 for a 9:45 procedure and would be going home soon after I woke up. When I woke up in recovery, I heard them talking on the phone to my Sister telling them I was going up to room 436. Uhh, I don't think so! They said the dr would be in to speak to me and that I should still be going home sometime that day.
The dr came to speak to me and let me know that he had found a blockage and that I would need a scan done. The scan would be done Saturday and afterwards he was pretty sure I would get to go home. This meant I was spending the night in the hospital and without my Lucas! Cue the waterworks.
Saturday came and I had the scan done. I of course asked the tech guy what he saw. He told me there was def something going on and that the fluid was going through my liver and thats why I was still having the pain. Augh, this meant I was spending ANOTHER night without my baby. Cue waterworks again!
Sunday came and they said I was going to have stent placed in my liver to open up the bile duct and let the bile travel through the correct way. This procedure should take 30 minutes and I should go home after. YES! 1 o'clock came and the dr came in and said one of the nurses had gotten sick and had to go home. My procedure would have to be postponed until Monday because they needed 2 nurses to do the procedure. WTF, seriously!?! Cue MAJOR waterworks. I was done. I was tired of not being home and especially of not being with my baby. Would he remember me? Was he sad? I was just finished. Luckily the sweetest nurse ever came in on her day off and I was able to have the procedure done at 3:45 on Sunday. She was my personal angel. I think I thanked her about 30,000 times. I even remember waking up in recovery thanking her. lol I ended up having to spend the night on Sunday because they had to do blood work on Monday morning but by this time I was thankful to be feeling better and was accepting of the full nights rest that I was sure to receive. Sure enough Sunday night was the best night of sleep I have had in a while and on Monday I was discharged.
I was so happy to see Lucas! He was well taken care of by family (which I had no doubt he would be). I'm not even sure he realized we were gone for so long. I'm home now and feeling so much better each day. I can finally say I am thankful for having the procedure done.
2 months (late!)
Lucas turned 2 months on the 9th of February.
In his 2 months of life he has:
found his hands
learned to laugh
smiles all the time
loves to hate tummy time
got his first play mat and LOVES making music on his keyboard
been able to put himself to sleep
stays up alot of the day now
sleeps from 10 pm-4 am, eats and then is asleep again until 9 am
still naps really well, mostly 2 hr naps
eats 4-5 oz
moved up to size 1-2 diapers
wears 0-3 month clothing
almost outgrown his 3 month sleepers
I'm sure I'm missing a TON of things as he does something each day that has me either laughing or in awe of his ability. I love this little guy with my whole heart and I can't wait to see what his 3 month update has in store for us.
Friday, February 3, 2012
Visitors and Sleep
We had a fun time with friends! Their stay was much too short but definately needed. While I love my Lucas, it was nice to be able to leave him with family and go out and have a good time. Mommy even got a little drink!
We spent a lot of time playing travel agent. We made a trip to San Antonio to visit the Alamo
and visited some places in Austin. We even got my favorite "Hey Cupcake"
Eventually they had to leave and life went on. Lucas was restless on my chest last night while I was trying to put him to sleep so I layed him down in his RockNPlay and he put himself to sleep around 10 PM. We're slowly trying to move up his 11 PM bedtime without throwing the little schedule we have off. E had to be at work super early this morning so when he left he informed me I would need to be aware and do the 4 am feeding. I felt like either time stood still or I had slept through Lucas crying. I frantically rolled over only to find that it was 6:52 AM and my son was still sleeping! It was awesome! Since my alarm was going to go off at 7 and I still needed to feed him and get dressed myself I decided to just get out of bed. I was able to do all the things I needed to do and drop him off at my Sister's by 7:45 so I could go and get an ultrasound of my gallbladder. That was quick and I was back home by 9:30. We spent the afternoon at my Sister's house and then came home. Lucas took an almost 3 hour nap and I was able to get the laundry done and snuck in some lunch. He's been sleeping like crazy today so I'm assuming he's also growing. We were able to sneak in a photo session too. lol Mom was a little bored today:
Friday, January 27, 2012
7 weeks and a dilemma
My little munchkin is 7 weeks old. This is his outfit of the day. We went to run some errands today which included going by my work, Target, my BILs shop, car wash and the gas station. He was an angel the whole time we were gone.
He's sleeping right next to me, he acts like his life is just so hard! lol I had my camera out earlier trying to catch a good picture of his smile but he wasn't having it. He would only smile when I took the camera out of my face-so of course I wasn't able to catch it.
I'm in a bit of a dilemma. When I left work I had in my mind I would be staying home and not going back until March 5th. Now that the time is here I find myself wanting to go back to work now. I'm bored at home, my Sister will watch him and so I don't have to worry about daycare availabilities. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong and it isn't a good decision but really, I don't like being at home all day. I need some outside interaction. I miss my coworkers and I know if I go back a couple weeks early that's more vacation time put back into my bank. E and I like to travel so it's always good to have the extra days and if Lucas gets sicks I would have days to take him to the dr and not have to burden my Sister. I'm still on the fence and haven't made my full decision but what sparked these feelings was when I went to visit my coworkers and pick up a check, my boss asked "When are you coming back!?!" lol She's so anxious for me to get back to work. I can't believe I've already been out of work for 8 weeks. It's insane. I'll keep you updated on my decision.
This weekend is going to be awesome! My friend Nicole from Oregon is coming to visit along with Kate and Mark from New Jersey. I met these girls while planning our wedding on theknot.com and we became bestfriends. I visited with them when we went to Boston and Connecticut! They are a big part of my life and I can't wait until they get here because I need some serious adult interaction. I keep telling Lucas all about them so he will be prepared. :)
Friday, January 20, 2012
6 week Post Partum Check-Up
I had my 6 week check up with my dr today. She did a breast exam and a pap smear (oh joy!) and checked my incision. The incision is healed, she said the scar will begin to lighten. It already looks pretty light and it doesnt bother me, so I could really care less if it stayed the light pink it already is. The overall drs appointment went well. I still weigh the exact same as I did a month ago. She gave me the okay to exercise so I think i'll continue my videos at home and then start zumba when the new month starts back up. She changes the songs and routines each month so I dont want to be behind if I just jump in now. I can't wait to get back!
Since I've never been on birth control before we talked about a few. She told me about the pills, the shot and the IUD. I decided to go with the pill because she didnt recommend the shot and she said an IUD is more recommended for people who plan to wait closer to 5 years before having another child. Since thats definately not our case, I opted for the pills.
I also told her about the pain that is still in my chest area. I let her know i had been doing research on my own (all those late nights up with that dumb pain!) and everything led me back to my gallbladder. She put in orders for a gall bladder ultrasound and if all things come back okay with that-she will refer me to a gastro dr to see what they say. I'm ready to just get this pain over and done with. She explained that if it was heartburn, the pain would have been taken away right after the baby was born. We think that it could have been my gall bladder the whole time and it was just confused with the heart burn since that is what usually happens when you're pregnant. I'm getting the pain at least once a week but here lately its been twice a week. It sucks!
This weekend E has offered to do all the night time feedings (which is usually only once at 4 am but you never really know) and strictly on 100% baby duty so I can get some rest. I was so thankful to hear that! I will enjoy sleeping in tomorrow but I know I won't be able to sleep through the night without waking up when I hear him whine. I just need to learn to let go and trust in E. I know he's a good Father and he can handle it....but my mind and body just have a hard time letting go. It'll happen.
I am also going to focus on cleaning our house this weekend. I want to post some things on Craigslist to sell and get rid of. We are also going to be expecting house guests next Saturday and I am super excited about them visiting! We need to get the nursery back to being organized because Edgar and I will be sleeping in there and allow Nicole to sleep in our room. I don't want her to have to hear us get up with the baby at night and no guest should have to sleep on the couch in the living room. We can't wait for their arrival!
Lucas is asleep in his crib right now. I'm trying to transition him slowly. Nap times are working for us now and next weekend since we will be sleeping in the nursery, he will be in his crib. That will be the final transition for him.
I also told her about the pain that is still in my chest area. I let her know i had been doing research on my own (all those late nights up with that dumb pain!) and everything led me back to my gallbladder. She put in orders for a gall bladder ultrasound and if all things come back okay with that-she will refer me to a gastro dr to see what they say. I'm ready to just get this pain over and done with. She explained that if it was heartburn, the pain would have been taken away right after the baby was born. We think that it could have been my gall bladder the whole time and it was just confused with the heart burn since that is what usually happens when you're pregnant. I'm getting the pain at least once a week but here lately its been twice a week. It sucks!
This weekend E has offered to do all the night time feedings (which is usually only once at 4 am but you never really know) and strictly on 100% baby duty so I can get some rest. I was so thankful to hear that! I will enjoy sleeping in tomorrow but I know I won't be able to sleep through the night without waking up when I hear him whine. I just need to learn to let go and trust in E. I know he's a good Father and he can handle it....but my mind and body just have a hard time letting go. It'll happen.
I am also going to focus on cleaning our house this weekend. I want to post some things on Craigslist to sell and get rid of. We are also going to be expecting house guests next Saturday and I am super excited about them visiting! We need to get the nursery back to being organized because Edgar and I will be sleeping in there and allow Nicole to sleep in our room. I don't want her to have to hear us get up with the baby at night and no guest should have to sleep on the couch in the living room. We can't wait for their arrival!
Lucas is asleep in his crib right now. I'm trying to transition him slowly. Nap times are working for us now and next weekend since we will be sleeping in the nursery, he will be in his crib. That will be the final transition for him.
Thursday, January 19, 2012
New Car!
E and I bought a brand new 2012 Chevy Cruze. It's beautiful!
We traded in his old Honda that we inherited from my Mom when she passed away and the Charger that I used to drive went to him. I love my new car! Lucas likes it too! :)
An update on the spit up. We dropped him back down to 3 oz and only 4 oz before he goes to sleep. It's worked perfectly! He doesn't spit up anymore and he seems to be happy. I guess those couple of days were just a fluke and the 4 oz were too much for his little tummy. We are still doing tummy time and he's still not enjoying it!
His outfit of the day was so cute I have to share!

He's getting so big so fast that it makes me sad. Tomorrow is my 6 week post partum check up with my dr and I hope she gives me the all clear to work out. I'm ready to go back to zumba and get my high school body back! One can wish right! :)
He's getting so big so fast that it makes me sad. Tomorrow is my 6 week post partum check up with my dr and I hope she gives me the all clear to work out. I'm ready to go back to zumba and get my high school body back! One can wish right! :)
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Eating and a little bit of spit up
At Lucas' 2 week appointment his dr told us to only feed him 3 oz because 4 oz was too much for his little tummy. I agreed and we followed the rules at home for about 3 weeks. We started to know he was getting fussy and we weren't sure why. It didn't fit his personality so I decided to start feeding him 4 oz. He took it like a champ. He started eating 4 oz with no problem but then would eat every 4-5 hrs, sometimes even 6. I didn't think anything of it. I then started to notice that when he did finally eat he would scarf it down like he hadn't eaten in forever and afterwards he would spit up. It's not "alot" but it does look like it. It made me worry that we were over feeding him. We started burping him about 3 times during each feeding but when we would pull the bottle away he would flip out. His head would fly around, his little hands were flying and he would cry and grunt. He didn't like it. We tried to sit him up during the feeding but no matter what we did, he would still spit up.
Today I decided to put him back down to 3 oz and try to feed him every 3 hours again. We'll see how it goes. He has been better about spitting up and he doesn't seem AS hungry when we finally gets a bottle. I think we'll give him a 4 oz bottle before he sleeps tonight and see if it holds him over until E gets up for work in the morning. I am going to see how this routine goes for us and if he's still spitting up at the end of the week I'm going to give his dr a call and see if we need to switch formula. I want to do this before we buy anymore formula because its almost time for more and we have coupons that expire soon. The spitting up doesn't seem to bother him but it bothers me like crazy.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
10-10, Tummy Time and Godparents
Lucas slept from 10pm-10am and only woke up at 4:20 to eat a bottle before Daddy went to work. It was amazing! My body doesn't really know how to handle all this sleep at once but in no way am I compaining. Right now he only sleeps about half the night in his bassinet and the other half in his lamb. I think he likes to be a little elevated and not all the way on his back. I honestly think he will sleep better on his side or even on his tummy but I'm nervous to let him. So, right now, we are just doing what works. We ordered the Fisher Price Rock N Play and it was delivered to the post office today. I'm excited to see how he sleeps in it. It's a bit elevated so I dont think he's going to have a problem staying asleep in it. As soon as he wakes up from his nap (yup he woke up at 10 and its only 12:20 and hes already napping!) we will head to the post office....or if E gets home before we venture out we will send him.
Our pedi told us to allow him to do "tummy time" on our chest. He lifts his head like a pro. I've seen major neck control and he goes way out there and just looks around. He has no problem controlling his head and moving back and forth. Yesterday and today I figured it was time to have him try tummy time on the floor. Ha! He HATES it! I only have him down there for about 3 minutes or so but he just gets so fed up. I lay down there and talk to him but it doesn't seem to matter. E told me he will learn to like it, we just have to keep doing it. I know he'll get there, it will just take time. Here's a picture of him after he was pretty frustrated and wanting me to pick him up.
Godparents. It has been a very tough decision for us because we come from a VERY large family with so many people to choose from. Edgar knew from the beginning he wanted his best friend Roland to be the Godfather. We figured we would also ask his wife, Lorie to be his Godmother. We were very happy with our decision and can't wait to see him grow with the help of two loving people. I've contacted the Church to see what we needed to do to get the ball rolling and I am going tomorrow to turn in his birth certificate so we can get started. From there they will contact us to get signed up for classes and then we can pick a date for the Baptism. They only do them the last Saturdays of the month and I don't think we will make January but I think we will make February. Right now, I'm shooting for February 25th. I need to start planning but I don't want too until I know for sure what day we will have it. I need to make invitations, rent the park pavilion for the lunch/dinner afterwards, see if we are going to do music or anything else. It's going to be a BIG celebration and I'm excited!!
Monday, January 9, 2012
1 Month Old!
My little guy is already 1 month old. He is growing so fast and needs to slow down a little.
Yesterday he rolled over on the couch. Edgar was playing with him and put him down, he rolled from his back to his stomach. Edgar's face was priceless! He thought it was just the coolest thing ever. I knew it was/is probably a fluke but it was nice for him to experience something.
This month has brought on a bunch of changes. He's brought us closer together, E and I. I couldn't even imagine the joy he would have brought to our lives but he did it. It's such an amazing feeling being a Mom and I'm sure E feels the same way being a Dad.
Landon loves him. He always wants to hold "his baby" and wants to give him his pacifier when he's crying or cover him up because he's czold. He is constantly asking about his "Lupus" lol because a 1 1/2 yr old can't really say Lucas correctly. He wants to come over or us to go over there everyday. He calls him at night to tell him his prayers and its just so cute. I can't wait for them to grow up together. They are going to be good friends and definately a handful!
I don't have stats on him but right now he just moved up to eating 4 oz every 4-5 hours or so. He still sleeps like a champ. He's been going to sleep around 10-11 and staying asleep until about 4 or 5,eating and then waking up for the day around 9 am. It's nice to get a good chunk of sleep. He loves bath time and doesn't cry. He loves when I scrub his hair and always falls asleep during this part. He's still sleeping in our room in his bassinet but I think we may start to transition him to his crib soon. I always said I was going to put him in his crib from day 1 but I never did. It's funny how things change.
ETA: I forgot to add that he is a pro at lifting his head. He does it with absolutely no problem whatsoever. he's been lifting his head since his 2nd day of life . He's a strong little guy. He has also been laughing in his sleep. It's absolutely adorable.
If he's given us this much joy, laughter and happiness in just his 1 little month of life I can't wait to see what the rest of his life brings us!
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Must haves...
I'll start by saying Lucas and I ventured out today to pick up his birth certificate. It was a nice surprise that getting him in and out of the car was what took us the longest. The birth certificate was ready in about 3 minutes, after filling out the paperwork, and it was such a nice experience. We were in and out of the house well within an hour. That included a trip to McDonald's for Mom!
I've been searching online and looking at different baby "must have" items and I decided to make my own list. Here's what I have so far in Lucas' small little 3 (almost 4!) week life.
Munchkin Formula Dispenser. It makes making bottles a breeze.
Playtex drop-ins. He hasn't had a problem with gas or spitting up and I think its because these collapse as he eats.
He falls asleep to "extreme rain" and its worked miracles.
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